(nervously laughing to myself here at my faux pas)
R., I apologize for that unsolicited response. A few minutes after I posted, it kinda dawned on me that you didn’t ask for opinion, but decided to let it stand and take my lumps if need be. The irony of the situation is not lost on me … the topic of discussion in a round about way: boundaries. And I turn around and pull a classic bull in the china shop moment.
I hope I didn’t step on your toes. If I did, know that that was not my intention; but only to lend a hand.