Clay, Deb says she totally in agreement with what you said. In principle. But she’s not used to going into Christmas waiting for something to go wrong because somebody decided to get pissed off at someone else. Again. She’s just glad Christmas (or “Christmas,” in this case) is over (except for time with our niece an…
I have a lot to say about that. I know what it’s like to be on the receiving end of such tyranny. And that’s exactly what it, but it’s essentially a matter of boundaries versus continuing to play assigned roles in a dysfunctional game.
It may sound simplistic, but it you can’t change a thing, change the way you look at it. Or leave it altogether.
More on that in a PM.