Hey Gwen,

So glad you gave the essay a read. I have to clear something up. When I wrote “don’t mind the gap,” I did not write that as a pass for Christians (or anyone for that matter) behaving badly. I wrote that meaning: anyone who desires to get to know God should do so, and not let the hypocrisy of others deter them. As a gay black man, I’m all too aware of the deadly violence against LGBTQ people.

The rise in deadly violence and blind hatred has turned the world upside-down. It’s truly sad that the label “Christian” has become a red flag for all sorts of people. And I think it’s sad, but also wise, to be cautious with anyone until they prove that they are a safe person. At forty-eight inches, that’s simply a part of the way I live. So believe me when I say I hear you loud and clear.

Education is the key for change to take place. Not all Christians are cut from the same cloth. Continue to raise awareness and stay safe.

And thanks so much for your time.

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